Wednesday, May 28, 2008

The Work Has Begun, I Think








I think the real work has finally begun. I think that because it really doesn’t feel like work at all. More like what I think God had intended all along. For months I’ve labored endlessly and with much effort to create something that was not to be. And, just when I had decided that all that was planned to be, was not, God starts something. And, the work has begun.

The work is a group of Dominican young men and women (mostly late teens and early twenties; a.k.a. jovenes), and true to form, these young folks don’t really care about my past, or my abilities (including lack of good Spanish language skills). What they really want, and it’s been the repeat story of all the young people I’ve worked with, is someone that can accept them for who they are, care about them, and give them a place in this world to be themselves.

So, that’s what’s happening. And, even with some caution of how quickly things can change here in the DR, I am confident that we have gained a foothold on the work here in Rio San Juan.

Just this past Sunday we had our first band concert. This concert was 45 minutes (by car) out from the village of Rio San Juan, and I’m honored and proud to say that we had about 100 people (mostly young kids and young adults) to come and hear the band play and sing. An excellent crowd for a tiny tiny spot of a placed called Bobita.

This blog will be like all the rest, way too long and way too detailed, but for the faithful few readers, it gives you an idea of what’s happening. First, as the “manager” of the band, my hope and wish, and instructions, is for them to practice, practice, practice. And then for them to use their music to touch people’s lives. Did they, while I was gone to the US?… Beyond my wildest hopes. They have demonstrated a dedication and seriousness to their efforts; the likes of which I don’t see a lot of either here or in the US from young people.

Now, I have to be honest to say that this is a very young band, and frankly some of the talent is not professional by any stretch of the imagination, but they sing with the hearts, and laugh, and have a great time. For what they don’t have in talent, they make up in just enjoying being with each other.

One of the things that I gave up when I sold my big home in Florida was my ability to host people in my home. And, it’s the only only only thing I might miss about my home in Florida. Well, I now have a simple small apartment in the DR, by any US standards, but it has become a new place for me to allow these kids to hang out. A new place to host. And, that’s what we’re doing. Hanging out, just hanging out. But having a great time together. (By the way, my apartment, by Rio San Juan native standards, is luxurious.)

I offered to take them (the group) all to a restaurant after the concert; even offered to pay for the meal. What did they prefer?… to go to my house and cook pancakes and fried salami and just entertain one another with jokes and stories. So, that’s what we did after the concert; we called it the “after party”. It was (if I can be really corny for a moment) a pure honor to have these kids (I call them that, even though kids is not quite what they are) in my home, literally rolling in the floor laughing so hard. This went on for several hours. And for hours I just sat there, and mostly listening to their jokes and their laughter, and watched them make home movies they made with my digital camera, and soaked up every moment.

And, as much as I hated to dismiss the crowd, I feared we’d be up all night unless I closed the party down. So, I did, after 4 hours.

Now, a day later, I look back and wonder how many purely incredible days I will have in the Dominican. Perhaps not many, but yesterday was one. It was work, and it was a lot of preparation. From logistics of transportation, creating our own electric energy, toting sound equipment and instruments, and a car pack with 8 people down a long road, that’s hardly worthy to be called a road; not to mention the heat. But, the destination was well worth it. It was one amazing event and after party. Thank you Lord.

Yep, the work has begun. And, attached are some pictures of the group. The group asked me to give the group a name, so I did, which is Esperanza, which means “Hope”. “Mientras hay vida hay esperanza” (translation; "Where there is life, there is hope".)














Thursday, May 1, 2008

One Last Post Before I Go to the USA



Just wanted to share one more picture. Because it kinda represents some things we are hoping will happen here. I'm finding, for a lot of reasons, I probably won't be able to have the deep relationships I've had in the US. Culture; language; money... many many reasons. But, what I can do is possibly facilitate others in developing those relationships. Specifically the guys that are meeting in my house hopefully will be willing to be mentored and guided in how to do help the teenagers. Not that I know how, but I'm trying to learn. So, if we do it together, perhaps they will be able to reach those I can not. And, I'm watching one of these guys, William, rapping at my house with some Christian songs (raps... whatever they call them), and these three kids (teenagers) immediately tune in to him and his music. And, then join in. So, this is a snapshot of where we hope we're headed. Maybe a long shot and along road, but it's hope.


Also, we just got an invitation to start helping at the local school. I wanted to take pictures. You could NOT believe the conditions of this school. But, we've been asked to help... so I hope it opens more doors on how to serve.

A few things that are fresh and good and hopeful, as I leave for the USA.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

New Beginnings



Celebrated Osvaldo's birthday with a "cake".



Not sure where this group is headed; maybe; maybe not, but it's started none the less. Here are shots of one of their first meetings at my house.








More Important than Property

I decided that I can’t sit around waiting to start building a resource center, so I started inviting some folks over to my house. Targeting young adults. Figuring they were not too broken to refuse to be molded into giving, caring adults. And, so far, my ‘figuring’ has been correct.

I met these guys through my assistance/helper/friend Osvaldo. And, they have been a blessing. They seem anxious to help. They just need a shot; and need to be tapped on the shoulder and say “hey, I need your help; here’s how I need your help”. Which, by the way, is a summary of my philosophy on getting people to help. People are wanting to, it’s just a matter of time and training and encouraging.

So, I’m hosting a gathering every week for them to play their music (which is the forum for them to express themselves) and dream dreams of changing their world. Willie, William, Saul, Joelfry, Samuel, Osvaldo, and Jeffrey are the original crew, but each time we meet, the crew gets bigger.

So, we’ll see what God has in mind. Last night we were hanging out on my back porch, them laughing and telling jokes in Spanish. Me pretending to understand, but the thing that was clear was that they were having a good time. We had invited some younger kids to hang out with them, and I think it did them all some good to be around one another. I’m hoping they’ll take the ball and run with more ministry to one another. I am convinced I may never know Spanish well enough to be in the middle of their jokes, but just to recline on a chair and watch them try to top one another with comedy was pretty funny, even if I didn’t understand Spanish. The next step will be toward service. Learning how to serve and who to serve. A challenge for all of us. But, if you knew the kids of this town and how broken they are at so many levels, you’d understand the need for a team of locals to hopefully step up and serve. I’m hoping and praying this group is part of that beginning. We’ll see. (see the photos posted of one of their jam sessions)

Catching up on Updates

First, the property. I know it gets redundant but we still have no resolution. We have found new property we’re interested in, but the cost is like 3 times what the original property was. It is in a much much better location as far as value is concerned, but raising the original cost was going to be a challenge, this changes the whole dynamic again, and sets a new bar for financing. Not to mention, we still don’t have the paper work on this property as well; not a final price; attorney’s again trying to scam us. I don’t want to be jaded by this type of thing, but it’s so incredibly challenging to want to do good; to want to see the betterment of a community (at many levels), but feeling like the community itself (at least those in power) having no interest. The common folks are all behind and support us as best they can, but they don’t hold the purse strings in the town, so are really powerless to fight the culture of indifference toward the poor.

We approached some of the more influential town folks and their response was basically that they were glad of what we were doing, but offered no substantive help. There’s a reason these places are considered 3rd world and I think a lot of it is because those in power want to remain in power and pass the power to their family exclusively. Forget the stranger.

But, we’re not about to give it. It’s just the battle. And it’s worth it. And I’m honored to fight and be called to fight for those who can’t otherwise have a voice. And, I’m honored to be fighting among some incredible team members. Some whom have seen more battles and tougher battles that I’ll ever see. (that’s the Wallace's and Roberta Edwards to name a few.) So, hats off to them. I appreciated them from a distance, but to see a small portion of their world, even more respect and honor for their amazing commitments.

Headed Home In Less Than A Week

Wow, it’s hard to believe I’ll again be back home for a few weeks starting next Saturday.

This job (or whatever you call it) is really weird in that the days and weeks all run together. In the US, it seems that a particular day or time is very important. Here, the particular day seems to be of no significance. Many people don’t work so weekends mean nothing; others work all the time, so weekends are not important. Sundays are not a huge deal here either, it seems.

I’m going back for two reasons. The first (in no particular order) is to be at Luckson’s graduation. For those of you that don’t know; Luckson is a guy I met in Haiti around 7 years ago. An awesome guy. But, almost 4 years ago now, (wow!) we were able to get him to a university in the US to study under-grad med/clinic stuff. (whatever you call it). Well, he’s graduating. My little brother (as I call him) is not so little anymore (in many ways!) He’s been accepted to optometry school and will start that this fall (if I have my info correct). Really looking forward to seeing him and the crew (slew) of people that have been there for him to see him cross the graduation stage.

And, my oldest sister (Blyth) is finishing RN school, at the age of 50. I’m 43. And frankly can’t imagine the struggle of having to learn an entire new discipline. I basically tried a little by going to language school, but if that were any indication of the challenge, I would have flunked RN school real quick. But she didn’t. It was an unbelievable challenge, but she stuck it through. Sometime, in my opinion, that is so rare for “older” adults. And, I’m very very proud of her. So, my family is going to her “pinning”. Good times ahead!

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Old Is New Again; Old Answers New Answers

Getting lost in what has happened these past few weeks; and the fog that surrounds has made me wonder what's going on, what I'm doing here, and where we go from here. But then the light breaks for a moment, and really the answer is simple. Rather I like it or not. And to borrow the songs from an oldy but goody song of the (what?) 80's, maybe 70's.

Reading the lyrics may not due the mood justice, but there are some words that are really really close to capturing where I'm at. Forgive me if it's corny. But, it helps me refocus on what I'm doing and why. Not really based on purchase (or failure of) property; or so many other things that go array, and have. I hope that I can somehow refocus on what I'm truly here to do. That's my hope and prayer. (and this would be so much better, if England Dan and John Ford Coley were singing in the background)....

Name your price
A ticket to paradise
I can't stay here any more
And I've looked high and low
I've been from shore to shore to shore
If there's a short cut I'd have found it
But there's no easy way around it

Light of the world, shine on me
Love is the answer
Shine on us all, set us free
Love is the answer

Who knows why
Someday we all must die
We're all homeless boys and girls
And we are never heard
It's such a lonely world
People turn their heads and walk on by
Tell me, is it worth just another try?
Tell me, are we alive, or just a dying planet?
What are the chances?
Ask the man in your heart for the answers

And when you feel afraid, love one another
When you've lost your way, love one another
When you're all alone, love one another
When you're far from home, love one another
When you're down and out, love one another
All your hope's run out, love one another
When you need a friend, love one another
When you're near the end, love one another

We've got to love one another
Light of the world, you've got to shine
Love will be a means
Shine on us all
Know that love can save the day
Just give it one more chance
Lord you just can't let it stop Lord
Love is the answer
Got to be free to let love into your life
Let it shine